Friday, September 2, 2011

The danger of Dating in the Internet

A very rapid development of Internet greatly facilitates a lot of people in the move. Ordering latest novel, read the news, find jobs, make friends and even dating. Then if the internet is safe?
Not really. Just like the real world, the Internet is very vulnerable by a variety of crime. What is the most cases of fraud and burglary site. What about online dating? Dating online is creating a new way to get acquainted with people without having to come face to face, either through online dating websites, instant messenger (Yahoo Messenger, Windows Live Messenger), online games or social networking websites (Twitter, Facebook). However, beyond that, there is a latent danger that threatens its users.

Here are the dangers of dating in the internet :

1. You do not know who the other person actually
The first The danger of course relates to the identity of the other person. Other person could have put a variety of fictitious information such as gender, age, photograph, or work. You'll never know who he is before you ever actually meet face to face with him. It would be very painful is not it, if it turns out you're wasting your time to share feelings with people who are fictitious. Identifying a fictitious person is actually easy, you stay he met privately asked directly. A fictitious person will usually be difficult to find a variety of reasons. Of course, if he wants to meet face to face, does not mean you escape from the dangers of Internet dating. Read the next point.

2. A high risk of fraud
A man named Dale Bell in West Allis, United States, must be willing to lose thousands of dollars due to fraud on the Internet. Dale Bell was originally introduced by exchanging emails to a woman who called Oladele, a New Yorker who currently lives in Nigeria. Oladele then send photos and emails to Dale romantic. Attracted to Oladele, the same woman he had never met, Dale without hesitation to send money with a total of more than 3000 dollars when Oladele promised to come to Milwaukee to meet with him. Of course these people never come. After an investigation, it turns out Oladele wearing a photograph of a model named Nicole Hawaii to win over Dale. If there is a saying that says, an image equivalent to a thousand words, then for Dale and other fraud victims, an image equivalent to thousands of dollars.
The above story and many other stories that you can read in the newspaper is living proof that the online world is the world's 'evil' if you can not use it properly.

3. privacy issues
The next problem is the issue of privacy. E-mail address, home address, background, and the data you will be used to things that are not responsible if you're too easy to include them in a foreign website. E-mail spamming and fraud are the things to watch when you give yourself the data on a website.

4. physical violence
As I said at the first point, if you've met in person, does not mean you escape from the dangers of online dating. You could have met with people who intend evil, either because they want to rob, kill, rape, or even meet with psychopaths. Beware especially if you are a woman, never met alone with someone who you only know via the Internet.

5. Counterfeiting relationship status
In September 2010, the British man, John Lorne McDonald should lose his life after being killed by Anselmo Locastales, a Filipino man. Anselmo is a genuine lover Nanqueen Romero, a woman whom he knew through a chat room. Apparently jealous of John Anselmo and stabbed him to death. Counterfeiting of such status is often the case in cyberspace and make yourself have a lot of problems when you are caught, say, with people who are married or have boyfriends.

Internet made ​​it easier to live, we all agree that. However, the ease it provides a gap for people who are not responsible for performing various kinds of crime. Always beware of what you see and read on the internet because after all, the online world is a man-made world.
That is the danger of dating on the internet. Beware!

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